Change Your Life in 2019

I am the kind of person that loves starting fresh. By no means am I an expert but I am going to share some tips and tricks that I am trying to do in order to better myself and be the kind of person I want to be in 2019.

  1. Make a plan:  Ditch resolutions! Resolutions can be so specific that the second we start to fall behind we usually tend to just give up on that resolution. Make broad goals such as I want to read more and I want to have a healthier life.
  2.  Get educated: Self-help books, cause we all need some friggen help. Here are some of my favs: The Law Of Attraction, The Power of Habit, Big Magic, Set Apart Feminity.
  3. Put your changes to action: Day planners, agendas, calendars, whatever tickles your fancy. Either way, start mapping out when and how you plan on making these changes happen.
  4.  Keep track on how you feel: Journal it, meditate, pray about it, sit with your thoughts, whatever you decide to do, make sure you are checking in with how you feel along the way.
  5. Stay Inspired!!!!: Make an inspiration board, change your background on your phone or computer, write out your dream life and pretend it’s already promised to you, GET OBSESSED WITH WHAT YOU WANT IN LIFE. Make it everything that is you.
  6.  Leave anyone or anything that brings you down in 2018: You are who and what you surround yourself with. If you have anything, any habit, or any person that is bringing you negativity or sabotaging everything you are trying to achieve, do your best to find a way to leave it in your past. You’re moving on to bigger and better things for you!
  7.  BELEIVE AND LOVE YOURSELF: I don’t care how corny it sounds. You will NOT be able to achieve anything if you aren’t supporting and loving yourself along the way. Ditch self-doubt, pity and fear and start treating yourself as if you are already the person you’re aspiring to be. You’re going to make mistakes, you’re going to fall off track, don’t give up on yourself. Just keep pushing and trying!
  8.  Breathe it in: Carpe that friggen diem planning and pushing towards your goals is important, BUT LIVE IN THE MOMENT TOO! If you know what you want to achieve, and you act as if it is already promised to you (the law of attraction) then you will find it easier to enjoy every moment and step along the way. You’re getting there, don’t you worry, so enjoy now while you can. This is all that we have right now.        

Love you guys to the moon and back!

๐•ƒ๐• ๐•ง๐•–, โ„๐•’๐•ช

50 things a man should NEVER say to a woman

  1. “Calm down.” (Are you dumb? That’s going to make her more mad.)
  2. “You look tired”
  3. “You look sick” (2 and 3 are quite the confidence boosters๐Ÿ™„)
  4. “Are you wearing that?” (Are you actually asking that??)
  5. “What’s up with your hair?”
  6. “I liked your hair longer.”/”Don’t cut your hair.” (It’s my hair your opinion is irrelevant.)
  7. “Are you sure you should be eating that?” (If I want to eat an entire pizza and a tub of icecream I’m going to. Don’t question me)
  8. “Have you gained weight?” ( that question will get you hit)
  9. “How much do you weigh?” (I assure you this question isn’t worth it. ๐Ÿ˜‚)
  10. “Put some meat on your bones.” (Are you kidding? Leave her alone)
  11. “You are lazy.” (You have a lot of guts, don’t you?)
  12. “You wear too much makeup.” (I will stab you in the eye with my mascara wand)
  13. “What’s up with your makeup?” (Makeup is an art. Let her express herself)
  14. “I think you’d look better if you wore___.” (Just compliment us. Don’t try and give fashion advice)
  15. “You’d be prettier if you ____” (So are you saying we’re ugly??๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ)
  16. “You are so pale.” (Gee thanks.)
  17. “You’re so cute when you’re mad.” (Well I’m about to look gorgeous๐Ÿ™„)
  18. “I don’t want to talk about it.” (I actually say this all the time so.. oops)
  19. “Just do what I tell you to do.” (I’m sorry are you my parent or..?)
  20. “I’ll just tell you later.” (Alright then I’ll just look dumb now because you won’t tell me what you are talking about ๐Ÿ™‚)
  21. “Shhhh” (Don’t say that ever.)
  22. “Chill out” (She is probably going to explode. Don’t tell a woman to chill.)
  23. “It’s really great how you (insert anything) but what if you did it this way?” (Or how bout I not do it at all and you do it instead?)
  24. “Get over it.” (How bout no๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ)
  25. “You never told me that.” (Actually you just never listen)
  26. “Whatever.” (I actually find this so incredibly disrespectful ๐Ÿ˜‚)
  27. “Let me know when you’re done with your attitude” (I’m never going to speak to you again)
  28. “I have a mother I don’t need another one.” (Then stop acting like a child…๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ)
  29. “You never listen.” (HA)
  30. “You are so needy.” (I needy you to stop talking.)
  31. “You’ll get over it” (I probably would’ve but then you said that. So now I refuse to get over itโ˜บ๏ธ)
  32. “It’s up to you.” (Be a man. Help make decisions.)
  33. “You knew I was like this.” (Don’t make your issues my fault.)
  34. “You are overreacting.” (YOU ARE UNDERREACTING.)
  35. “You’re wrong” (start over. A woman is never wrong.)
  36. “Hurry up.” (I don’t even need to explain why you should never rush a woman.)
  37. “Did you do my laundry?” (Refer to #28.)
  38. “Maybe you should go to the gym.” (Maybe you should go buy me a cake๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ.)
  39. “It was a joke.” (Must not of been very funny if you had to tell me it was a joke.)
  40. “My ex never did that.” (Um cool?”)
  41. “You should ask my mother for her recipe.” (You should probably start going back to your moms house to eat then)
  42. “When is your baby due?” (This could honestly get you into so much trouble. Just don’t ask.)
  43. “How old are you?” (No. No. No.)
  44. “Is it that time of the month?” (Nope you are just really annoying today.)
  45. “Where’s dinner?” (You got me. Where?)
  46. Do not compare your tiredness to her tiredness.
  47. “You sound just like my mother.” (๐Ÿ™„)
  48. “My ex…” (Just stop while you are ahead)
  49. “Can I just say something.” (No you cannot)
  50. “You are just like every other girl.”